Getting Back In The Saddle

  We all know that old saying “If you fall off a horse get right back on the horse,” and that’s good advice, but, honestly, getting back on the horse immediately is the easy part. It is a day or two later that things become more difficult, because that is when  fear sets in - after you have had some time to think about what happened. There are  also times when  you aren’t able, physically, to get back on the horse. When you have to wait to recover from an injury it becomes even more difficult to get back in the saddle.  After a fall, whether it’s just a minor one or something more serious, fear can take over and become a huge obstacle to overcome when you’re trying to get back to where you were before the incident.
   Fear robs you of your confidence, which in turn robs you of enjoying one of  your passions in life - your horse. Oftentimes we feel guilty because we don’t want to ride the horse we have enjoyed, trusted and loved   to ride so much in the past. We are often embarrassed,  as well, not wanting to tell anyone we have lost the confidence to ride because we are afraid that would seem weak or silly to others. Sometimes we begin making excuses not to  ride such as  “I don’t have the time” or “ I’m too tired today, it was a long day at work” or
“The weather is not good for it” and so on. That, in turn, brings more bad feelings - guilt and sadness about not wanting to be with your beloved horse.
  When you’re having all these feelings your horse is picking up on them. Horses need a confident leader and when you become nervous or anxious your horse loses confidence in you as a leader and more problems can occur. This becomes a vicious cycle  - the more fearful you become  the less trust your horse has in you, so basically you  are feeding off each others’ fear and lack of confidence.     
   The most important thing anyone can do is admit their fear to themselves, to their horse and to the people around them. It can be very difficult to admit to a fellow horse person that you have lost your confidence to ride. Some people will understand while others won’t.  Friends or riding companions who advise you to “Just get back on that horse and ride,” aren’t helping you, even though they believe they are helping. In some cases taking that advice may make matters worse for you  and your horse. The best advice is to find a friend or family member you can confide in and who will help you work through the problem. If possible find a professional riding instructor who has had experience dealing with adult riders with fear issues.
   Since you have lost your confidence and  your horse has lost his/her confidence in you as a leader you need to do something to start building trust again. Doing ground exercises with your horse can often aid in getting some of that confidence back. Do simple obstacles such as walking around cones or barrels, walking over ground poles or through a labyrinth. These exercises  can very easily be transferred to mounted work. You should always work at your own speed  and within your comfort zone, whether doing ground work or riding. Again, having a friend, family member or a professional helping you with these exercises is better than working alone.

October Western Dressage Clinic

On October 26th I will be holding the first in a series of Western Dressage clinics.

This clinic will give you and your horse a foundation to begin training, as well as break down and simplify Western Dressage. We will discuss the Pyramid Training method which will give your a horse solid foundation to build on. This method will improve your riding skills in general, whether or not you compete in Western Dressage. You will learn about collection, straightness, rhythm, relaxation, and connection. We will discuss proper balance. You will learn about riding with your seat, legs and whole body. We will teach you about looseness and relaxation throughout your body to encourage your horse to move freely forward in steady tempo and rhythm.

We will explain the movements required when riding a test, as well as the goals when riding a test. You will learn about the required movements, gaits, and how a test is scored. Our main focus at this clinic will be Horsemanship Test 1/Intro Test 1 so you will be able to ride a portion of the test while being instructed, which will give you an idea of what it's like for you and your horse to ride a test.

The purpose of this clinic is literally to give you an introduction to Western Dressage in a relaxed , safe and comfortable environment for you and your horse.

Please e-mail us at winningcolorsequinecenter@gmail.com for a registration form.